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Self Impression

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SELF IMPRESSION When we were young we used to do things we liked without caring on who will judge or what will be the judgement, may be you liked to sing and you were bad at it, despite singing made you feel happier. Others liked dancing or playing and it was the same. As we grew up, things changed and before doing something we take into account how will it be seen, other people’s options and opinions matter. We’ve lost the validity of our own happiness because we do live on validation of others. Most people live life to impress others as much as It can be, I’ve lived the proof not because of my desire but the fear of my reputation.  This life has many supporting facts when it comes to literature and some sayings of wisdom like “to be a great champion you must believe you are the best. if you’re not, pretend you’re” said Muhammad Ali. This is so valiant and adventurous but it is obvious that most people decide to let themselves die and rot in someone’s life coat, due to the fear of

Perfect imperfections

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Life will always be unfair, whether you like it or not. But once you learn how to see good in everything around you, life will fall in line.  He is called brave he who laughs in face of adversity, but it’s not that easy cause it costs a lot. Probably the crowd you are in see a looser in you and made yourself believing it, it is now making you think that you are not going to make it in life. You are the black sheep of your family, your life is a movie with episodes of tears and disappointments, sadness and bad luck anthems as soundtracks. You’ve been fired, you’ve due rents, and many credits out there, or you are a student with unpaid school fees, struggling with family conflict and you aren’t even succeeding in class. Life might be though, your marriage might be cutting close & having no idea of how to bring everything back to normal; your children are developing the character of bad upbringing, it seems like your family is dis-functioning; in all, life is sucking.  No