Mon-Stylo

Sometimes you think you’re ready to pull the trigger, but suddenly you find out that the bullet has your name on it. Close that book with mistreatment as the book cover, each page has its content; tears, sadness, anger, unsatisfied desires, envy, greed and so much more. Get out of that comfort zone because no one is there to save you. They're only there to stop you from flying higher and from reaching beyond the limits. By the time you’ll start taking care of yourself, cutting yourself from sick friendship, mistreats, people who want you to read their minds like an open book, you’ll be called weird, mean but that’s choosing yourself. Instead of sitting down and wait for people to change and start treating you right, treat yourself right. Yeah, I know that when things change, people start perceiving them the other way round. I might be lying if I told you that it’ll be easy to settle and go in line with things but as the days go by you’ll come around by time and live the best pa...

Some people in this world are soulmates when you share a soul with someone betraying them equals betraying yourself. You can be devoted to two completely different people, who need the same level of love, trust, loyalty, and commitment. This requires a process that includes another person’s life and it is called friendship. Man’s life is more important than man’s secret but some lives are built on secrets and when they are revealed the life that is built on the ends as well. So, when you are asked to choose between the two, you are confused and there is no easy way out because when you’re devoted to both choosing who to save and who to betray as a human you can think you have a binary choice, but when you’re truly devoted to both it’s no choice at all. A friend told me that when you have a tray of 29 eggs and two other more eggs in your hands with one remaining space on the tray and when you know that they obviously won’t both fit in that space, if you force them, they may cra...

Life is a long journey! The longer you travel, the more the destination expands. You can’t travel alone. You need friends and people by your side. Life has no formula, it has complex ways to go. You meet people you never thought you would meet and you go to places you never thought you would have to go to. Having people by your side helps you to move forward, and they become a living part of your life. A bridge can be port to bring together the two separated worlds, or just a detachment which forms a continuous layer of foliage. People in our lives are there either to bring the best in us and tie up the loose end or there as a shade to cover the exterior parts of your life. Sometimes it’s hard to know who to trust and how to. Your darkest secret keeper can break your faith and double cross you, whatever the cause that will be divided loyalty. Having this from your most promising friend, the one you trust with your life, the one you are most vulnerable with, the one who knows what’s ...

We are all likely to plan for tomorrow and some even prepare a whole year project and much more. Days don’t tell, and we’re so blind to see that. Am not against people who have such visual cards, Because seeing is believing and the law of attraction says that when you visualize you materialize, but the bravest have an addition of golden list which lists the things they are especial grateful for. Being grateful brings happiness in daily life. It starts from learning how to, then becomes a habit and finally it becomes a natural part of your life.  All days are not the same despite the season, in summer there may be a day which is hotter than others, or in winter there may be a day which is colder than others. Similarly in our daily life in a bunch of good/bad days there could be the best/worst of all. Everyday is unique, it has its own story to tell, and a lesson to teach. Life at its essence boils down at time. When we’re dealing with issues we hope things to get better b...

Sometimes home is not a place but a person. Various things that connect people are two-way actions, when you are asking for it, you are giving it in return, Love is one of them. Love is the sweetest thing ever exist. The only thing that allows us to feel pain and experience it the way forth is love. Some people believe in meeting the right person at a right time, and others believe in meeting the one that will become perfect by time. It’s true in both ways but whatever you agree with, you need compromise and sacrifice. It will ask you to share your love languages, your value of love, your definitions of love and your ways to love. Jim Stovall quoted that love is a treasure that we can never pay, the only way to keep it is to give it away. And it’s said that a heart without love it’s like a bird without the wings to fly. The most things in life are reflections of; who we are, the way we see things, or the way we make use of things, so in giving love away we’ll get it back in reflec...

SELF IMPRESSION When we were young we used to do things we liked without caring on who will judge or what will be the judgement, may be you liked to sing and you were bad at it, despite singing made you feel happier. Others liked dancing or playing and it was the same. As we grew up, things changed and before doing something we take into account how will it be seen, other people’s options and opinions matter. We’ve lost the validity of our own happiness because we do live on validation of others. Most people live life to impress others as much as It can be, I’ve lived the proof not because of my desire but the fear of my reputation.  This life has many supporting facts when it comes to literature and some sayings of wisdom like “to be a great champion you must believe you are the best. if you’re not, pretend you’re” said Muhammad Ali. This is so valiant and adventurous but it is obvious that most people decide to let themselves die and rot in someone’s life coat, due to the fea...

Life will always be unfair, whether you like it or not. But once you learn how to see good in everything around you, life will fall in line.  He is called brave he who laughs in face of adversity, but it’s not that easy cause it costs a lot. Probably the crowd you are in see a looser in you and made yourself believing it, it is now making you think that you are not going to make it in life. You are the black sheep of your family, your life is a movie with episodes of tears and disappointments, sadness and bad luck anthems as soundtracks. You’ve been fired, you’ve due rents, and many credits out there, or you are a student with unpaid school fees, struggling with family conflict and you aren’t even succeeding in class. Life might be though, your marriage might be cutting close & having no idea of how to bring everything back to normal; your children are developing the character of bad upbringing, it seems like your family is dis-functioning; in all, life is sucking. ...